Friday 19 June 2015

Expectations.


Expectations. My opinion on them? Don't have any, about anything... ever. Wait before you write this off as the bored ramblings of an unemployed 19 year old student done with uni for the summer, really think about it.

Think back to all those times someone or something has let you down, some of those times it was their fault sure but most of the time you can blame it on good old expectations. The thing that can turn something average into something fantastic and then to below average in a heartbeat.
Having expectations for most things is bound to end in disappointment and I don't know many people who live for disappointment, do you?

Save yourself a world of worry and heartache and have no expectations about things that have the potential to go wrong. My method, is to dream realistically some may call that being cynical but daring to dream is all well and good if things pay off but things can only pay off with realistic action based on realistic viewpoints about situations.

For example, I have no expectation that this summer is going to be any less painful than the last. I don't want it to be as painful so I'm taking steps to avoid that fate.

This is a pretty grim post I realise but hey I'm feeling pretty grim right now, I might not even post this.

Another thing to not have any expectation on whatsoever? Have no expectations that I'll be posting regularly this summer, or ever really because I don't.

Be kind to people,
Love, The Girl In Blue
xoxo